My Almost Mother-in-Law?

i had a crazy mother in law too, and yes my EX would take her side all the time. that is one of the biggest reasons i divorced him. its always good when a man has a good relationship with his mother, but a real man realizes that his WIFE has to come first, and he must take her side, and not his mothers. a real man would tell his mom to back off, or "we wont come visit anymore". u can do better than that. time to move on.