Girls how long is your hair? I have issues with having my hair cut!?!?

OMGGG i thought i was the only one! i just got my1st haircut by a salon lady just 3 days ago and i almost fainted lol!see my hair was past my butt and my mom would cut the ends to keep it nice.i wanted something different because i felt so old fashioned and we only live once right?i started thinking (im 23 by the way)and i realized hair grows.i wanted to break free from my security blanket so what i did was i talked to the hairdresser and told her how scared i was and we came up with a plan, she would cut short layers on the top and leave the same length in the back(i was freaking out)she did it and when she finished i saw how simple it all had been.....and than i let go of my fear and told her to cut the whole damn thing off i ended up getting a fashionable bob