Whats with this who complaing from feminists about women being treated like sex objects?

I don't understand why i hear so many compliants how us men treat women that way. Can you give an example of how... If ur talking about exotic dancing, reminder, its the woman herself that decided to be a dancer. Its a womans own decision to work at lets say hooters, bikini bars ect.. Its just that men are visual, we are turned on with what we see. Its how we are programed. Women are people too, not objects but we can't help if we get turned on.. And besides.. Im sure u ladies, if u were on the beach and saw an athletic good looking guy without shirt, u'd probably would want to have sex with him right? So really whats the difference? Men are treated this way too!